Me: "She doesn't want the nasogastric tube down again, it hurts her."
Family: "She's just being difficult, put the tube down."
Me: "I'm not going to do that."
Family: "But you have to! She has to outlive her husband! Mom, what kind of person would you be if you didn't outlive your own husband? A terrible one, that's what." *whispering* "Come back in five minutes, we'll talk her into it."