She has to live!!

Me:  "She doesn't want the nasogastric tube down again, it hurts her."

Family:  "She's just being difficult, put the tube down."

Me:  "I'm not going to do that."

Family:  "But you have to!  She has to outlive her husband!  Mom, what kind of person would you be if you didn't outlive your own husband?  A terrible one, that's what."  *whispering*  "Come back in five minutes, we'll talk her into it."

#you'reallburninginhell